Sometimes, we are conditioned to believe that in order to help another, we must say the right thing, do the right thing, be there at the right time, and whilst all of those “rights” are not wrong, we are forgetful that the single most Brilliant offering of support to another is simply allowance of where they are, no matter where we are, in any now.
When we allow, we create space for energy to flow. So when we're holding space for another’s healing, we are allowing with Love the freedom of our fullness to welcome the freedom of theirs.
Can you see how very little doing is involved in this process? Rather, there is a being with, and this being with allows for an enormity of shifting of flow.
When I meet with another, we spend most of our session in conversation, but not is this a conversation of words; rather, it is a conversation between our energy, which is truly One.
When the flow that I have welcomed within is allowed the opportunity to freely “speak” with another’s, it does so in a way that reminds blocked energy how to flow or simply be, for energy when simply being is flowing at all times.
My energy that I have freed within speaks clearly of this freedom to your energy. Your energy recognises in my energy encouragement to flow. Not is my energy superior, not is it magically better than yours; I have just offered my fullness allowance and that is all.
When we have a stagnant pool of water and we welcome into it a through-flow of water, no longer is that pool of water stagnant; rather, it is offered an opportunity to freely flow again. When my flow encounters stagnancy within another, I am also offering it an opportunity to freely flow again, not by saying the “right” thing, not by doing anything in particular, but simply by flowing as I am.
The gift of this free-flowing fullness is the gift I offer during my healings. That I receive Wisdom to accompany it is just an enhancement of the powerful flow that I am — and that you are when you welcome with allowance your truth.
This is why the most remarkable healing facilitators are those who have truly healed themselves. Energetically, their freedom within is the ultimate offering of support.
With Love
Kirsty
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