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Writer's pictureKirsty Collett

Letting Go of Rejection

An opinion, an action or non-action is only received as rejection if you are unable to differentiate it from who you are — if you are unable to let that energy flow through you without sticking to you.


Introduction:


A few months ago, I received this Freedom Wisdom highlighting the nature of the mind. It is one of many I have received with this theme, and I will share them in time. But this one is calling for presentation first, along with this message of introduction from my Highest to accompany it:


I have had enormous rulership by my mind in my life, which negatively impacted on my Being. So ruled was I by the illusions my mind fed me that I suffered immensely. I had an addiction of inadequacy, and I had a fever of rejection. These manifested outwardly in ways I am yet to admit publicly, not because I am fearful now of judgement, just because the time is not yet ripe.


My Higher Self speaks freely in this Wisdom of the Matters of the Mind, which could also be referred to as illusions because these Mind Matters that fill our system with fear do not at all speak of our Brilliance. They do not at all honour our truth. They do not at all reflect the freedom within that we are truly, powerfully sourced from.


They only speak of our Lower Self. They only shout of our limitations. They only, regretfully, deny our fullness. But not are we hateful of them, not are we necessarily disrespectful of them, we are simply aware of their tendency for drama, and then we are allowing of their releasement from rulership.

Perhaps you have also been ruled by the mind? Perhaps you have also manifested great negativity from your misplaced loyalty? Our loyalty must remain with the heart, not the mind. Our loyalty must honour the Love that we are, not the mind-based demands we are not. Our loyalty is to our truth, not our false hoods. And our loyalty must be open to the Brilliance in the All, not imprisoned behind the barriers of the ego.


So as you ponder this Freedom Wisdom, I invite you to also ponder the Matters of your Mind and your loyalty to your Being. And perhaps you also want to keep tuning-in, as I have a feeling the journey I will share in time — my journey — will bring a newfound appreciation for the entrapment the Matters of the Mind can offer, but also for the incredible freedom you experience when you are no longer imprisoned by the limitations of the Lower Self.


Transcript from the recorded Freedom Wisdom:


Rejection feels overwhelming. Rejection discourages our flow of Love within. Rejection imprisons our fullness because rejection denies our truth. Rejection rejects our truth, and when we reject our truth that we are Brilliance of Love within, we feel rejection from the other more strongly. But when we honour the Brilliance of Love within, rejection from the other is met with only Love; it is met with only allowance; it is met with only Presence of all that we are.


That Presence honours the other, that Presence freely welcomes the opinion of the other, but that rejection does not infiltrate your Being. That rejection does not stick to who you are. That rejection cannot stick to who you are because you are free. You are free within and that means that you are free to allow that opinion of who you are to flow through you — not to stick to you, not to define you, not to remotely connect to your truth at all; only to allowingly flow freely through you.


When you allow the opinion of another to flow freely through you, no longer is it received as rejection. You see, rejection can only be received as rejection if you reject the rejection! But if you allow the opinions of others, if you freely honour the opinion of others, but refuse them entry to your fullness, then they are not rejections after all, they are simply opinions of the mind. And what are opinions of the mind, if not illusions of the all?


Remember that opinions are fears, really. They are fears that we are not the same. They are fears that we are different, but that difference is only feared when you are forgetful that you are Love. Love has no fear, Love has no rejection of fear, Love has no dishonouring of fear, Love has no regard for fear. Love and fear are the opposite of one another. Love and fear are dualistic expressions of the All. Love and fear, they are one, they are connected, they are together, they are married, they are partners, they are sourcing their existence from one another.


My opinion might not be your opinion. It might not be anything like your opinion, and that's OK. It's totally OK. It's so OK that it brings me so much freedom to even suggest that it is OK! My opinion does not have to be anything like your opinion, and I'm OK with that. I'm totally OK if your opinion is completely different to mine, and I'm only OK with that because I am Love, and Love allows the all. I only allow into my fullness that which serves me, just as I recommend you do. I only allow into my Beingness that which represents who I am, and I highly recommend you do the same, too. It's this flow, without allowing anything to connect to your fullness that does not serve it. It's that freedom to LET GO that brings me back to rejection.


An opinion is only rejection, an action or non-action is only rejection if you are unable to differentiate it from who you are — if you are unable to let that energy, if you like, be released. So really, rejection is an illusion. Rejection is simply someone else dishonouring all that they are, because if they were honouring their truth, if they were honouring their fullness then they would be allowing you the freedom of yours. So when you are rejected, either through words, or action or even silence, as the case may be, then remember that they cannot be rejecting who you are, for who you are is beyond rejection. Who you are cannot ever be rejected, because how can you reject what IS? How can you deny what IS?


No, what they are rejecting, or more accurately what they are denying is their truth, their oneness, their freedom within, because as long as your are rejecting, you are not free within. Because rejection is a block; it is a block to the flow of freedom within. Rejection is a denial of another, of a wisdom, of a truth, of a beauty, of a fullness, of a difference. Does that makes sense to see how rejection of another is a block within yourself? It may feel like you are protecting yourself, perhaps, by rejecting another. It may feel as if you are honouring yourself by rejecting another — honouring your desires, or honouring your comprehension, or honouring your understanding — but the true way to honour who you are, the true way to honour you freedom is not to reject the other, but to allow the all. Can you imagine if instead of rejecting our differences, we allowed them? Can you imagine if instead of dishonouring each other's Brilliance that we allowed it to glow brilliantly? Wow, the world would be so beautiful, we would all be so beautiful. Perfection is nothing other than freely welcoming the all. It is nothing other than freely honouring all that you are within. And how could you ever be expected to allow another their freedom within, if you cannot first allow that within yourself? It goes the same for rejection. If you cannot first free yourself from rejection within, how can you offer that same freedom from rejection to another?


Yesterday, I received an email from my father — who has been an enormous teacher for me on my journey — freely accepting my truth, freely honouring who I was, freely welcoming that Brilliance within me to shine in my way, with my voice, with my expression of Love that I am. It was such a gift to read that email and to allow the energy within that email to infiltrate my Being, because the energy within that email was received as light. That light has a place in a Being of Love because it feeds my Soul, it illuminates my Brilliance even more, it honours my truth, and so I let that light in. I let that light flow through me and harbour within me, intensifying the Brilliance that I am.


But let's say I was to open another email, an email that offered not words of allowance, but words of rejection. Well, I would still freely allow those words to flow in, but instead of harbouring them within me, instead of inviting them to stick to my Being, I would watch them flow in and I would invite them to flow out. I have not allowed them to create a block to my flow by rejecting the rejection within me. No, I have allowed that opinion, that illusion of the mind, to flow in and flow out. In that way, I no longer receive those rejections as any form of darkness within me. No! I honour them their opinion, I welcome them their thoughts. I allow them their own truth, but not is that mine so not is that mine to own or keep or hold within. So I let it go. It's not mine, it doesn't belong to me, it has nothing to do with who I am, so I freely give it back or let it go, or simply pretend it never was. For truly, it never was anything to begin with but an illusion of the mind.


Thank you.

Kirsty







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